03
Jun
via fuckyeahsexualhealth
(Source: fuckyeahsexualhealth)
via cutcutpasteThese images are photographs of couples making love in a dark room….
via sharpedlamb29
May
via theweemouse27
May
Yes. I couldn’t have said it better myself.
(Source: snowinoureyes)
via eltrotskysflyingcircus26
May
24
May
Masturbation for Cis-Men
Most men learned early on that touching their penis is pleasurable. They may begin by rubbing it against things that feel good (like pillows and sheets) or simply begin stroking it - some men prefer additional lubrication some prefer a dry hand. The thing with hand jobs is that other than the fact that having another person perform a hand job on them, no one will ever do a hand job on a guy as good as they could do themselves. We don’t usually speak in generalities here but this seems to be a universal phenomenon. So, for all you women out there the best way to learn to do a great hand job on your man is to watch what he does to himself. There are so many nuances from person to person that it’s unimaginable. Hand position varies widely, along with speed, angle, and motion. Some prefer to stand up, some want to sit, some enjoy reclining. Position may depend on the situation.
The main thing we discovered about developing a “How To Male Masturbate” is that we simply cannot include all of the techniques we came across. Men are much more socialized towards their penises than women have been towards their vulvas for many, many years. It seems that because men learn to handle their penises to urinate and the penis is a sign of virility, male masturbation has been more reinforced in our culture than female masturbation. Therefore, they’ve had A LOT of time to develop hundreds of ways to masturbate. So, other than the basics we’ll just include a few trends here and let you personally explore the rest of them on your own…
Knowing the lay of the land is important.
Anatomy of the penis:
- Glans: The head of the penis
- Frenulum: The underside of the glans; ** the most sensitive part
- Shaft: The length of the penis
- Perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles
- Testicles: Where sperm is made and stored for ejaculation.
To lube or not to lube?
Try it both ways and see what you like. Most men begin experimenting early on with hand lotion and soap in the shower. Do yourself a favor and graduate to one of the many amazing lubes out there. Maximus is a great thick lube for jerking off.
Masturbation Techniques
Full, single hand
Using a single fist is the most basic male masturbation technique. Simply wrap one entire fist around the shaft of the penis and begin stroking up and down.Two Fists Together
This works especially well on men who have more length. Wrap both fists around the shaft and stroke up and down.Two Fists Alternating
This variation used each hand one at a time but allows you to alternate. You can even experiment with one fist going up and the other down.Two Finger Method
Many men who prefer to focus their stroking on the glans (head) of the penis prefer this method. Using just the thumb, pointer and ring finger from one hand rub the head of the penis vigorously.Thumb and Finger Rings
Make little circles with your thumbs and ring fingers from both hands. Encircle around the penis and stroke up and down.Male Masturbators
There are a great many different objects that you can thrust your penis into that will simulate penetrative intercourse. This can vary from toilet paper rolls to fruit (watermelon or cantaloupe). Other foods like the infamous apple pie from the movie “American Pie”. Rest assured that if you can think of it, it’s been done.
A slightly cleaner option is one of the many male masturbation toys on the market now.
Everything from the popular Head Honcho to the much-loved Fleshlight has been quite a hit with men when it comes to vaginal simulation.Masturbation Variations
Intensify the experience by adding anal or prostate stimulation.
- Aneros: An easy-to-use prostate stimulator.
- nJoy Pure Plug: Anal plug that slides in and stays put.
Vibrators take some of the manual labor out of masturbation by providing direct, intense physical stimulation. Some tried and true models:
- Fukuoku—fits over your finger, so you can still stroke, while getting an added buzz.
- Cock Rings add sensitivity by keeping blood flow in the penis.
If you are circumcised or have a tight foreskin I’d suggest using lube. I’ve had a lot of people tell me that they hurt themselves masturbating without lube or damaged their skin or sensitivity.
*as always, doesn’t just pertain to cis-men
via pussycologist23
May
My school held an event today featuring student art made of (unused) condoms to promote sexual health awareness and feminism. Some beautiful person made this: yes, that is Captain America’s shield. Made of condoms. You are welcome Tumblr.
via hedgehoghedgefuck yeah sex education: Hookups are sadly cunnilingus free
While looking at college dating and sexual behavior, it is easy to see that hook-ups are a major form of intimacy and dating between people. There have been studies about how hook-ups relate to alcohol, sexual assault, sexually transmitted infections, and sexual pleasure. Most recently, a study is looking at oral sex satisfaction among college age women. The results are in:
Instudyrecently published inJournal of Sex Research, sociologistsLaura Backstrom,Elizabeth A. Armstrong, and Jennifer Puentes interviewed 43 college women (including 15 fromIndiana University) about their experiences hooking up with men. In these interviews, most noted that they viewed cunnilingus (oral sex performed for a woman) as intimate and emotional, thus more desirable within a relationship But, among those who desire it with men they hook up with, they are often frustrated to find that cunnilingus is not a regular part of the routine for hookups. In fact, some noted the common disappointment they face when they performed oral sex for their partners that was not reciprocated with cunnilingus.
There’s an inequality in hookups, and it seems that while men are receiving oral sex, women are sadly not receiving oral sex in a reciprocal manner. Hook-up culture can lead to an unbalanced satisfaction, since generally if both people know it’s a one night deal, they focus on getting the most pleasure out of the experience, and not taking the time to learn what it is that their partner desires, since they may not sleep with them again.
However, if women feel empowered enough to ask their partners for oral sex, these numbers may rise. And to men who would like to perform oral sex on their hook-up partner, ask and go for it! Let’s not aim to have disappointed sexual partners!
My friend recently asked why guys go down on me, but not on her. I think it’s because I ask them to. Before I do, I ask if they reciprocate, because this is very important to me (though, it may not be important to everyone).
I like to see hooking up as pleasing as many people as I can, while receiving pleasure at the same time. I like to leave no one dissatisfied. The idea that people don’t look at it this way is disappointing to me. Maybe since it’s one-night deal, I try to stand out from the other ones, or cram in as much pleasure for both of us as I can, since there won’t be a re-do.
It’s important, whether you’re in a relationship or just hooking up to communicate: ask what they want, and tell what you want.
At the same time, I think it’s important to note that you can’t force anyone or be angry at them if they don’t want to do something. As much as I think everyone should love cunnilingus, you always have to be respectful of people’s limits.
via operation-orgasm